"But take it easy a bit"

Andy is right, that isn't my speciality.

When friends make up it isn't about who was wrong but because being angry is unconfortable for both. That's the sweet part of fighting and fighting probably is a part of the healty building of a friendship. If you never fight probably you don't care so much, if you care you need sometimes to go to the end of things. Friends can fight because they know their friendship is too important to be harmed by a fight.
How it passed is between me and him, but I wrote here angry stuff and now want to say you Andy is the sweetest guy in the universe. I didn't change my mind: if he had answered my first mail all that could have been avoided. But now I understand his life is so complicated and stressfull then sometimes he needs to turn off.
Reading CA's book you see how much staying focused for three weeks costs to racers, and that pressure is biger for Andy who is supposed to win. This year specially it was hard to recover from Tour de France, mentally more then physically I think. I'm still amazed he raced in Italy in October in spite he was sick and after what happened in the Vuelta. He showed his strong character and stubbornness.
I'm stubborn too, you see, and one of my biger faults is a kind of rigidity about schedules. I have been an organizer too long and as a mum still I am. Often I get nuts about that, moreover if Andy is involved, given that we can hardly meet by chance. Ok, he needs a true breack now and I must lern to take it easy.
I'll try Andy - your message was like a caress - and sure I'll e-mail you - but answer now and then this time.